Infidelity Ends Shania Twains Marriage
May 21st, 2008 by The Babe
Once again infidelity rears it’s ugly head and the consequences are hard for Canadian born country singer, Shania Twain and her six year old son.
Rumor has it that Shania’s husband, Mutt, (with a name like that what the hell can you expect) had been unfaithful with Marie-Anne Thiébaud, a longtime secretary and manager of the couple’s chateau in Switzerland. It’s also been reported that the relationship is ongoing and that Thiébaud had left her husband for Lange.
Twain, 42, and Robert ‘Mutt” Lange, 59, married in 1993. They have a six year old son, Eja D’Angelo.
An insider says the ‘You’re Still The One’ singer is ‘devastated’, adding: ‘This came out of left field … She loved him.’
Another source close to Twain said she was coping with the help of ‘a very close-knit group of family and friends.’
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Cheating Wives On The Increase In Singapore
February 29th, 2008 by The BabeIs nothing sacred anymore? Some husbands have resorted to installing spyware on their wives’ computers to track their e-mail and messages.
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Poison, Death For Cheater
September 30th, 2007 by The BabeXia Xinfeng, from Maolou in the central province of Henan, passed a capsule with rat poison from her mouth to her long-time lover, Mao Ansheng, during a kiss, the Shanghai Daily said.
Mao swallowed the capsule and died soon afterwards.
“The couple had said that if either one of them cheated on the other, he or she would have to die,” the paper said in explaining the mouth-to-mouth assault.
Xia found Mao had been “talking” with another woman and deemed that he had broken their promise.
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Cheaters Advice
August 28th, 2007 by The BabeHowever ever since I came back he’s been calling. It’s usually regarding work. But in between the “work issues”, we engage in back and forth flirting. We’ve met twice since the business trip and the sex is incredible!
I don’t know what he’s thinking or if he plans to escalate the matter. Am I just another notch on his belt? I thought that I could control myself; but lately my mind is preoccupied with him. I’ve never been unfaithful before, but I can’t stop day dreaming about this man. I know I’m in deep, but l don’t know what to do. Help!
YOU ADORABLE HALF WIT: Did you say . . . . . . . “deep?” Oh, you’re in deep alright — deep in a deliciously lusty, electrifying passionate affair where everybody smells divine, wears expensive underwear, and no kids totter into the bedroom and throw-up on your pillow. It’s all sex, sex, sex, sex, sex, sex, sex, with a little high drama thrown in.
The last thing you want to do is escalate. If you escalate, that means you divorce your husband and marry Mr. Incredible Sex. And when you marry Mr. Incredible Sex, you’ll soon be just as bored and irked with him. And when you get bored and irked with him, you’ll go on a business trip and have an affair with a new Mr. Notch-Belt.
Come on. Your affair may be heartfelt, but the guy’s a cheat, a liar, and a scoundrel. You can go on deceiving your husband, which will lead to divorce, which will in turn destroy the happiness of your children and completely ruin your life. . . . Or, you can do the smart thing: Do not see the seedy little bugger again.
Cheating On Spouses For Many Reasons
May 22nd, 2007 by The BabeA good number of people seem to share that viewpoint. MSNBC.com/iVillage’s Lust, Love & Loyalty survey found that about 22 percent of respondents have cheated on their partners. When they asked readers to share their stories and views about infidelity, they received numerous tales of betrayal and its aftermath, as well as various reasons for cheating.
Whether it was a desire to fulfill emotional needs or sample an assortment of partners, which our survey suggested were two popular reasons, people have no shortage of justifications for their cheating ways.
“I have strayed in most of my relationships, sometimes because my partners were the ones cheating and I would find out and get even. Other times, my partners were cheating, but would accuse me of cheating to cover their own infidelities, so I figured if I was going to constantly be accused, why not go ahead and do it?” explains A. Aguero from Fort Worth, Texas.
Read on for more readers’ tales and opinions on straying and staying true:
“Monogamy definitely has its place, but I just can’t seem to locate that place. I am in love with the hunt. After I catch her, the fire dies and I become bored with her.”
— Kevin, Brooklyn, N.Y.
I found out almost a year ago now that my husband was cheating. I found his cell phone bill with pages of text messages and phone calls to this one particular number. Sure enough, when I called it, the woman told me she was in a relationship with him. We have two young children and our sex life was GREAT. I didn’t ever think he even had the energy for anyone else. The problem is now, with all the evidence, he STILL won’t admit that he was ever with her. … I still love him (always will), but now I am on antidepressants to help me cope with all the mess he’s put me through.
— Anonymous
I’ve been cheating on my boyfriend for three months. He won’t have sex with me or hang out with me, and so I found someone who wants me every night. I haven’t left my boyfriend yet because of our baby, but I eventually will. … I don’t regret anything!
— Judy, Honolulu
My partner has cheated on me for years yet I stick with him. He says it all about variety. We’ve been together 20 years and he says it has nothing to do with OUR relationship, OUR sex life or MY physical attributes. It really hurts but I justify staying because everything else in our relationship is amazing. I really feel he is my soul mate in every other part of our lives. … I believe you’re either inclined to cheat or your not — I’m not, he is.
— John, Michigan
I think people can find reasons to cheat whenever they want. However, there is no excuse for cheating. I am in the Air Force, and in my first marriage my wife cheated on me while I was deployed. I am now remarried to the love of my life and last week I was devastated when she told me she is having an affair with another man and she had no regrets. This is occurring while we speak and I am deployed again to Iraq.
— Michael
I think women are all too often categorized as cheating because of emotional needs. My husband is phenomenal in every way. He is loving, caring, patient and wonderfully wicked in bed. I cheat, not because he lacks anything, but because I travel a lot and enjoy sex way too much to go for long dry spells when I’m away from home. … He doesn’t know and we are very happy.
— Anonymous
Nothing is worth destroying your marriage and family over. You’re not just cheating on your spouse, but if you have young children, you’re cheating on them, too. Being unfaithful is one of the most selfish things you can do.
— Shannon, Pittsburgh
Due to an ever decreasing sex life with my wife, I plan on cheating the first chance I get. I won’t regret it, because she will have deserved me straying because she won’t take care of my needs. I’ve expressed that I need more from her, but apparently she’s not capable or unwilling to give more. Believe it or not, it’s actually the emotional connection I crave as much as the physical connection.
— John, Ventura, Calif.
Cheating is an unfortunate side effect of a relationship clearly over. While I understand those who cheat claiming they were either “bored” or “frustrated” in their relationships, I can’t help but think many couples resort to that option all too quickly.
— Anonymous
Before I got involved in an extra-marital relationship, I thought it was a taboo thing. Then I realized it helped spice up my marriage and I’m more pleasant to be around in the house. But nevertheless, I did feel guilty about my action toward my primary partner. He is a hard-working man, great father and husband … I don’t have any desire to leave him.
— Tifa, Minnesota
I think the problem with most relationships is that people don’t wait to find the right person. You should be compatible in the present and with future goals. I don’t try to change my husband, and I would never cheat — even if I were tempted. It’s not worth it and I wouldn’t disrespect him.
— Jennie, Austin, Texas
Unfaithful Wife Is Tatooed By Husband
May 12th, 2007 by The BabeThe 45-year-old man was sentenced to three years’ imprisonment and six strokes of the cane by a Singapore court. The man had tattooed stars, patterns of the sun, an arrow, and the words “one way” on the wife’s body.
Cheating Spouses Are Being Nabbed by Private Investigators
May 2nd, 2007 by The BabeAccording to a survey reported in London’s Daily Mail this week, the number of
The survey, based on interviews with 100 divorce lawyers, reveals that nearly one in five couples involved in divorce cases hired an investigator - with a third more women than men using their services. The cuckolded spouse is now faced with a dilemma. If an investigator proves your fears unfounded, what does it say about the state of trust in your marriage in the first place?
That may be because men are more likely than women to be having an
Hiring an investigator may cost thousands of dollars, but in England an impending House of Lords ruling could turn family law on its head by allowing the conduct of both parties in a marriage to be taken into account when deciding upon financial settlements. Hard evidence, it seems, may soon convert to cash.
Internet infidelity: are we all at it?
March 25th, 2007 by The BabeA survey of 15,000 US internet users in 2004 revealed that 32% of women, and 13% of men believed the web encouraged adultery.
Another UK study, published by the BBC, showed that 30% of internet users who have online lovers admit to having had sex with their virtual partners in the flesh.
Sexual equality - The same BBC study revealed that younger people are more likely candidates for webultery, and women are as likely as men to be unfaithful.
Slipping through the net - It also revealed that 70% of women and 54% of men remained in the dark about their spouses extramarital activity.
Porn ratings - In the US, meeting a new lover online and an obsessive interest in pornography are the top problems cited in internet-related divorce cases.
Too much chat - Other reasons for the breakdown of marriages, a panel of Chicago lawyers say, include excessive use of the net and chat rooms.
Email evidence - Staying in the US, 22% of men, and 14% of women have strayed at least once during their marriages. Peoples’ online activities are also being used against them in divorce cases. Almost 80% of US attorneys said that incriminatory emails had been part of divorce proceedings.
Cheating husband hid wife’s body
January 12th, 2007 by The BabeAn unfaithful husband who strangled his wife and fled with her body in his car boot has been sentenced to a minimum of 16 years.
Wealthy businessman Derek Symmons, 63, strangled his wife of 38 years, 59-year-old Christine, in the hall of their £1 million home in Loudwater, Hertfordshire.
He attacked her when she taunted him about being impotent and insulted the memory of his dead mother hours after they had been to a marriage counselling session. 
She had just discovered the father-of-two had been cheating on her with 52-year-old teacher Myra Croney who he met through an internet dating agency. He then bundled her body, wrapped in polythene, into the boot of their BMW before catching a cross-Channel ferry to Calais and driving to Macon in central France.
He only confessed to the murder when his daughter Claire phoned him the following day worried about her mother’s safety. He told her : “I’ve done something terrible. You’ll never forgive me.”
During the trial at St Albans Crown Court, Symmons claimed he acted in self-defence when his wife attacked him over his affair. But judge Michael Baker, QC, said he had rejected his evidence as a “web of deceit”, adding: “You painted yourself as a loving husband, cut to the quick by your wife’s taunts about your mother and your claimed impotence.
“Whatever your sensitivity on these matters, the reality is you were conducting an affair at the time and, even after your wife found out about it and you had begged to be forgiven, you had no real intention of stopping it.
“You killed your wife in an impulsive act when, uncharacteristically, she stood up to you.
“Nothing she said or did justified any violence on your part, let alone the extreme and savage beating and strangling you meted out to her.”
The judge went on: “Your conduct after the event was calculated, cold- hearted and callous.
“Instead of immediately ringing for the emergency services as any contrite man would have done, you wrapped your wife’s body in polythene and concealed it in the boot of your car.
“You took steps to clear the scene of incriminating clues, you cashed some money at a hole in the wall in the early hours, you went briefly into work, and you drove to France.
“I reject completely your claim that you did not know what you were doing.
“You only stopped trying to escape when your daughter rang and asked where her mother was. It was only then that the spark of humanity returned to you and you realised that you could not keep up the charade.”
Symmons, wearing a black suit and white shirt, showed no emotion as he was jailed for life.
During the three-week trial the court heard that by the summer of last year the couple’s marriage was in deep trouble.
Mrs Symmons, a hairdresser and onetime Samaritan, had found out he had been cheating on her.
In June Symmons had accidentally phoned home on his mobile phone while with his lover Ms Croney.
His wife heard them kissing and him saying “I love you” followed by “it’s too hot to wear knickers in the summer”.
Mrs Symmons discovered condoms in his wallet, a prescription for Viagra and by checking his credit card bills discovered he and Ms Croney had stayed at hotels together including one in Venice.
Nadine Radford QC, defending, said Symmons had lost everything in a “spontaneous fit of action”.
She added: “His children and his grandchildren and any future grandchildren are lost to him. It is likely that he will either die in custody or he will be released and will die shortly after that.”
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Survey: Desperate Housewives Have Regrets About Husbands
January 4th, 2007 by The BabeSo much for happily ever after. A new survey has found a shockingly large number of blissful brides turn into desperate wives.
If given a chance to do things over, more than half of 3,000 married women polled by Woman’s Day magazine and AOL were not sure they would marry their husband again — with more than a third saying they would definitely not pick the same spouse.
In the online survey, which was not scientific, more than three-quarters of women also said they fantasize about a man other than their husband — and 39 percent admitted to constantly flirting.
Three-quarters of the women also admitted keeping secrets from their husbands — like the crushes they have on celebs. On the top of the fantasy list for women who like sexy married stars are actors Will Smith and Ben Affleck. They each received 31 percent of the vote.
Not surprisingly, the survey found that wives are not the only ones whose thoughts and bodies stray to others.
Nearly half the women said they suspected their husbands of cheating or caught them in the act.
Ignorance, the women said, is not bliss — 84 percent said they would “absolutely” want to know if their spouse was being unfaithful.
A lot of women apparently become bored in the bedroom. Nearly a third said they stick to the far side of the marital bed. Another third said they don’t have time for sex with their husbands.
Just 10 percent of married women said they usually don sexy lingerie in bed. More than half prefer a ratty T-shirt or comfortable pajamas, while a third sleep naked.
The biggest rows between married couples are caused by petty disputes, say 51 percent of the women. Money, with 27 percent of the vote, also was high on the list of reasons why husband and wife fight.
The survey also found women spent time thinking about celebrity match-ups.
The most unusual matchup had anchorwoman Katie Couric bedding one of the hottest eligible men in Hollywood, George Clooney.
Nearly half of the women said they wanted the hunk to end up with Couric, while 31 percent thought New York City Mayor Mike Bloomberg should pair up with the CBS anchor.
Actress Jennifer Aniston should hook up with Matthew McConaughey, according to 47 percent of those surveyed.
Jessica Simpson belongs with Hollywood hunk Josh Lucas, according to the poll.
And the real-life desperate housewives in the poll felt “Desperate Housewives” star Teri Hatcher should get it on with John Stamos, of Uncle Jesse fame in the TV sitcom “Full House.”