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June 10th, 2010 by The Babe

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How stupid can you get? Suzanne Corona, a Batavia, New York wife has been charged with adultery by local police.

Police say an officer saw Corona and 29-year-old Justin Amend having sex on a park picnic table, in view of children and other adults, in broad daylight.

“He had a shirt, and his pants were down,” Officer Eric Hill said.

Corona and Amend were charged with public lewdness, but Corona is also accused of adultery, becoming the 13th person in New York state history to face the charge.

The cheating wife has her own take on the incident…..

“We were not naked on a picnic table – we were sitting there on the bench, fully clothed. His pants were on, my clothing was on,” Corona said. “Yes, it was inappropriate to behave in that manner in a public area.

“His genitals were exposed, perhaps, by the zipper, but that’s it – but no one would see that. I want to make clear to everyone nothing was out there, nothing was showing,” she said.

Joseph Corona, the husband,  says he’s sad and hurt, but he forgives his wife.

“I’ve got 40-some more years to spend with my wife, [and] I’m not going to throw it away over one incident,” he said. “I wish that the charges were dropped and that we could resolve this as man and wife. It’s more of a private matter.”

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Keep It In Your Pants In Kandahar

June 8th, 2010 by The Babe

Recently the commander of Canada’s battle group in Kandahar, Brigadier General Daniel Ménard, was suddenly kicked to the curb and ordered to return to Canada. The unexpected firing, almost certain to end the career of a soldier considered to be on his way to the top of the army, came after his commanding officer received reports that the General was having a sexual relationship with a female member of his staff.

His firing as head of the Canadian Forces in Afghanistan because of his alleged affair — is the first Canadian general officer to be dismissed on the battlefield since the Second World War.

An extramarital affair might not seem a serious issue to those outside of the military. The public is more than willing to forgive transgressions by movie stars, politicians (including presidents) and pro golfers. But it isn’t the extramarital sex (Ménard is married with two children) that poses the problem. It’s that it happened between soldiers, in a war zone.

It turns out that Canadian soldiers in battle are not allowed to have intimate relations of any kind.

That includes kissing, hand-holding and passing naughty notes in the mess tent. Amazingly, the rule applies even if they are married, which Gen. Menard is, although, unfortunately, not to the subordinate he allegedly was having sex with.

The hypothetical scenario behind the military’s banning of  relationships amongst soldiers in war zones is simple. One is unlikely to order someone they’re in love with to risk death. Even if the two participants in a relationship are able to set aside their feelings and perform as professionals, others in the unit who know of their relationship might come to doubt that they would be treated fairly

Imagine having to fight a battle with someone who recently dumped you. If ordered by someone who’d just rejected your affections to stay behind and die, might you not be the least bit suspicious as to their motive?

Had Ménard been a low-ranked officer or an enlisted man, caught having an affair with a fellow soldier, it’s possible they would have gotten off with a thorough dressing down from an officer, off the record, and an order to be more discrete about it. But since Ménard was the top man, even though he’d never have faced the  decision, from the safety of his headquarters, to send another member of the HQ staff into a minefield, he still had to go. A general cannot be judged by a different standard than the troops he commands.

Would you rather have active-duty soldiers who are actually getting laid or just desperately wishing they were? Someone needs to do a study on proving that celibacy and sexual frustration – actually improves performance in battle or any other aspect of life.

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Boy Toy Admits Bedding Larry Kings Wife

May 11th, 2010 by The Babe

Boy Toy Hector Penate
Celebrity Cheaters

Last month CBS reported that Hector Penate, 31, had an affair with Larry King’s wife, Shawn Southwick.

In an effort to boost his “career”, Penate admitted to screwing King’s wife right before her divorce filing last week and says she mused about Larry’s demise. He claims Shawn, 50, often spoke to him of her desire to divorce Larry, 76, and wistfully told him,

“Don’t worry, he’s gonna die soon.”

Penate claims the affair with King’s wife began in 2007.

“We had sex in Larry’s bed a lot,” he said. “I felt like it was my house.”

Southwick has denied having an affair with Penate, but he says they so had one, and not only that, it was motivated by King’s affair with Shawn’s sister, Shannon Engemann.

I wonder if Jerry Springer has any openings on his show?

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Larry Kings Affair Deserving Of The Jerry Springer Show

April 20th, 2010 by The Babe

Larry & 8th Wife Shawn

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Larry King is recognized as one of the premier broadcast interviewers. King has conducted some 40,000 interviews with politicians, athletes, entertainers, and other newsmakers. He has won an Emmy Award, two Peabody Awards, and ten Cable ACE Awards.

In a story fit for the Jerry Springer show, King is being accused by 8th wife Shawn Southwick of having an extramarital affair with her sister, Shannon Engemann, Engemann is denying that she did anything wrong.

The tabloid claims Larry spent over a million dollars to put up Shannon at the swank Beverly Hills Hotel and bought her expensive gifts including a car.

Shawn’s 45 year-old sister Shannon reportedly told a friend “I had sex with Larry and he bought me an expensive car.”

Shawn said that she wouldn’t have felt so crazy if she’d caught Larry fooling around with a stranger. The fact that he’s cheated with her sister has made it so much worse.

When Shawn learned about her husband’s illicit affair, she took a little revenge – by having an affair herself.

Back in November 2008, the National Enquirer claimed Shawn cheated on Larry with their son’s baseball coach and 29 year-old aspiring actor, Hector Penate,

This little tryst (if true) sets her into the Cougar category as there appears to be a 20 years age difference between Shawn and Hector.

Whether or not the allegations are true, take a look back at the legendary late night host, who’s been married eight times to seven women, and his lengthy list of ex-wives …

  • Freda Miller married King in 1952 when he was 19. Their marriage
    ended in 53 when the marriage was annulled by their parents.
  • Annette Kaye Married to King briefly and gave birth to their son Larry Jr. in 1961. It’s said the King did not meet Larry Jr. until the son was in his thirties A little insight into King’s character? He divorced Kaye while she was pregnant
  • Alene Akins A former Playboy bunny. Like [tag]Liz
    Taylor[/tag], he married and divorced the same woman – twice. They
    had a son in 1962 But King and Akins obviously were still hot for one
    another. Five years and one wife later, (King married Mary Francis ‘Mickey’
    Stuphin in 1963, only to divorce her in 1966), the pair remarried. While
    their second go-around was also short-lived, as the couple divorced in 1972,
    Alene gave birth to daughter Chaia King in 1969.
  • Mary Francis “Mickey” Sutphin
  • Sharon Lepore 1976 – 1983 Math teacher and production
    assistant
  • Julie Alexander 1989 -1992 He met business woman Julie Alexander
    in 89 and proposed on their first date.
  • Shawn Southwick 1997 …. He married Shawn three days before he
    underwent heart surgery to clear a clogged blood vessel. They have 2 sons On
    King and Southwick’s 10th anniversary in September 2007, Southwick boasted
    she was “the only [wife] to have lasted into the two digits”.

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Extramarital Affairs Are A Worldwide Affair

February 20th, 2010 by The Babe

I found a great article on the stats on infidelity and extramarital affairs around the world.An indepth look at global sex trends on cheating.  It appears some countries are just better at it than others……

The dubious title of the world’s infidelity capital goes to a ………..

Check out the article as you’ll be surprised at these citizens that cheat at such astonishing levels, that they even put the French to shame!

Read The Article

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Online Affairs Are The Flavor Of The Season

January 14th, 2010 by The Babe

onlineaffair.jpgRemember the time when you had to leave home and hit the bars and clubs to find someone with whom to have a affair. Whether it was a one night stand, a little diversion from your marriage or an attempt to find that special someone, you were required to “make nice” and strut your charms physically.

All that is gone. Now you never have to leave the comfort of your home and online affairs are the ‘flavor of the season’ when it comes to infidelity and extramarital relationships. A recent statistic shows that over 70 million people are actively engaging in online  relationships, taking full advantage of the borderless freedom of finding a lover, a date, a spouse in a virtual world.

In a online affair, you can present yourself as you’d rather be, not the way you actually are. You don’t use your real name and you can shave years off your age; you can promote yourself in your job; you can describe interests you only dream about; above all, you can make yourself more interesting.

Somebody pays attention to you. You get to establish an intimacy with someone, by presenting yourself as you probably fantasize yourself to be.

And the pay off? So what makes an affair with an online lover more attractive than a conventional affair?

Somebody pays attention to you. You get to establish an intimacy with someone, by presenting yourself as you probably fantasize yourself to be.

The affair can be had without the risk of running into family members, nosy neighbours, or inquisitive friends. But the real difference today is the convenience, speed and ease with which these affairs can develop.  You can  spend hours chatting on the net, exchanging sexually explicit mails, and indulging in virtual sex using your webcam. Sometimes this virtual affair can last for months, even years without actually meeting your online lover without having physically met your online lover. Although in the early stages, there’s may be no sex involved, most affairs eventually lead to sexual infidelity through cyber sex or real physical contact.

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Adultery Leaves A Trail Of Broken Hearts And Marriages

December 29th, 2009 by The Babe

Adultery was once considered a sin – or at least a secret. Not online. The Internet dating craze is blazing a trail of broken marriages thanks to dozens of sites inviting participants to identify themselves as “not so happily married,” “married but that shouldn’t matter” or even, “married but we swing.”

Studies show some 30 percent of online dating visitors are married – and recent research by the University of Florida reports that what starts out as flirting and cybersex quickly escalates into the real thing.

The Internet became an easy escape for “Barbara,” a 43-year-old married New Yorker who dated about 60 men in three years until she met Steve, who’s also married – but now sneaking around with Barbara. “We see each other once or twice a week,” she says. “We have a lot in common, have a great time together and the sex is phenomenal.”

She says a cold husband sent her surfing for more. “There was no warmth or any physical affection,” she says glumly. She tried cajoling her husband into seeing a marriage counselor, but after only one visit, he refused to return. She didn’t want a divorce because of their 7-year-old daughter, so she posted an ad in one of the adult dating sites online.

“I’m not interested in jeopardizing my marriage or anyone else’s,” she told The Post. “I just wanted to find someone special I could click with.”

Other women interviewed by The Post say they’ve been searching for deeper emotional relationships than their husbands are able to give – but aren’t ready to leave.

“I guess the sex just isn’t what it used to be when we first met,” says Nicole, 28, a married New Yorker.

“I miss the feeling of sex being new and exciting. It’s addicting.”

Addiction is something Chris Samuels, the co-director of a sexual addiction treatment center in Greenwich Village, understands all too well.

She’s treated many married and unmarried patients who’ve gotten caught up in Internet lust.

“Its power is almost trance-inducing,” she says. “You can troll these sites and have a fantasy ready and waiting. Cybersex can provide a quick and powerful high. It’s like crack cocaine to sex addicts.”

Alfred, 49, is a self-described Internet Lothario who says he’s been “swinging” for 23 years.

Before going online, he would post ads in “swinger magazines,” sometimes waiting two to four months to set up a first meeting. Now his desires can be gratified almost instantly by posting ads online.

“While I’m open to a relationship, I’d prefer someone I can meet for no-strings mutual sexual pleasure on a continuing basis,” he says.

Alfred’s new online ads generally attract several interested women (“I’m a seller in a buyer’s market,” he says proudly).

He usually hooks up with married women, but says there are plenty of singles who don’t mind that he’s already spoken for.

Unfortunately, while these spouses are sowing their wild oats, there’s likely to be someone at home who’s getting hurt.

John LaSage, 43, from California, could attest to that – his wife left him and his two teenage daughters to take off with an Internet boyfriend.

The experience led him to create chatcheaters.com – a Web site designed to help dissuade potential cheaters and to comfort those who’ve been hurt by them.

“Chatting is OK, cheating is not,” says LaSage.

“People should realize how quickly relationships can form online. Flirting can lead to real-world affairs.”

If you suspect your spouse of having an online affair, “Bring the issue out into the open,” he says.

“Look out for the warning signs” – like excessive Internet use, new email accounts, turning off the computer when you walk in the room.

“If you just want a sexual hit, you can masturbate a lot quicker than having an affair,” she says.

“But it’s about gratification. They want someone to find them attractive, someone to want them passionately.”

But not every married person who’s gone the online route has found the affair of their dreams.

Wayne, a 49-year-old man from New Jersey, complains that his inbox is usually cluttered with undesirable partners and a fair share of transsexuals and cross-dressers.

But that may be just the ticket for a 34-year-old Lower East Side “Rockerdude” who advertises online that he’s hoping to make sweet music with men, women – and anything in between.

“Yes, I am married, but we have a very liberal, open-minded relationship – so be brave,” he writes.

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Infidelity Reaps Rewards For Family Of Cheating Husband

July 15th, 2009 by The Babe

Cheating husband pays for his infidelityIf you’re considering cheating on your wife, you may pay in more ways than one. It appears that cheating husband,Robert Charlton, had a roving eye for the ladies but was consumed with guilt and each time he strayed he’d buy his wife, Elizabeth, a bigger and more expensive piece of jewelry.

These little sex on the side love affairs were worth nearly $500,000 to his heirs, who sold their mother’s jewelry at auction in London.

The most expensive item in the auction was a Rivière necklace made up of 54 diamonds, which sold for £50,000. The auctioneers believe Mr Charlton would have paid at least £5,500 for it in the 1960s.

Other highlights included a large pendant which went for £44,000 and a chunky diamond solitaire ring that sold for £19,000. A pair of drop earrings went for £18,000 and a gold bangle decorated with nine diamonds fetched £20,000.

The Charlton’s were married 25 years and Robert’s sex affairs were an open secret in the family. Considering that 43 pieces of the love booty were sold, and the family kept some pieces, it’s now wonder poor Robert died at 63 and Elizabeth survived him until 2006 when she passed away at the age of 90.

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Survey Unveils What Happens in Bedroom

December 20th, 2008 by The Babe

Associated Press

STOCKHOLM, Sweden – Austrians love their bedrooms, but seldom make love in them. Malaysians often have sex in their bedrooms, but don’t get much sleep there.

Those are some of the conclusions of an international Gallup poll presented by Swedish furniture giant Ikea. The company wanted to know how frequently people in Europe, Asia and North America use their bedrooms for different activities, including sleeping, relaxing and “romance.”

  • In Sweden and Iceland, 72 percent of respondents said they use their bedrooms for romantic endeavors, while in China the same figure was 20 percent.
  • Malaysians were the most sexually active — 43 percent said they have sex daily in their bedrooms. Malaysia was also the place were people sleep the least: Six hours and 36 minutes per night, about half an hour less than the survey’s average.
  • Austrians ranked low in sexual activity, but were the most satisfied with their bedrooms, ahead of Belgians and Swiss. Russians were the least satisfied.
  • Spaniards and Americans were most likely to keep their bedrooms private.
  • Almost half of Chinese allowed their friends access to their bedrooms.
  • Other facts in the survey: Three-quarters make their bed daily; people who frequently change their mattresses have more sex; and the most common fixture of a bedroom is the alarm clock.

The survey included 14,000 IKEA customers in 27 countries. The margin of error was 4.5 percentage points.

Sex And The City

December 16th, 2008 by The Babe

Some time ago the University of Chicago, as part of the Chicago Health and Social Life Survey, found that we city folk spend much of lives unmarried. We spend most of the time being single and dating. Obviously, this has led to an elaborate network of “markets” in which these adults search for companionship and sex.

Laumann and his staff at the university examined how race and sexual orientation play a role in forming relationships and how multiple sexual partners and jealousy also work into the equation. Among other things, they found that, between the ages of 18 and 59, those surveyed cohabited an average of nearly four years and were married about 18. The rest of the time — an average of about 19 years — they were dating or alone, with no steady companion.

Researchers interviewed 2,114 people in the Chicago area from 1995 to 1997, as well as police officers, clergy and social workers. They also took an in-depth look at neighborhoods with predominantly black, Latino and gay populations.
Divorce was, of course, one of the big reasons so many people were single. But so was the fact that many young people are putting off marriage — sometimes because of school, but also because many are approaching the institution of marriage more warily.

Laumann and his colleagues say markets also are often defined by racial group, neighborhood and sexual orientation.

  • Young, upper-income people on Chicago’s north side were more likely to meet their partners at school or work.In Latino neighborhoods, for instance, family, friends and the church played a more important role in forming partnerships among those surveyed.
  • Women surveyed were, for instance, less likely to meet a partner through work, church or other “embedded institutions” as they got older — making it more difficult to find someone. Laumann says that may be due, in part, to the fact that men in their 40s often sought women who were at least five to eight years younger.
  • Many gay men in the survey focused largely on transactional relationships, while lesbians were far more interested in relational connections.
  • Researchers also addressed the issues of multiple partners and jealousy. Overall, 23 percent of men and 31 percent of women said they experienced jealous conflict at some point during their relationships.
  • And researchers found that cohabitation resulted in more jealousy — and physical violence — than it did among married couples.
  • Men were more likely than women to have more than one sexual partner.
  • Among those surveyed, 20 percent of men and 6 percent of women said they’d had sex with at least one other person during their most recent relationship.

“What’s going on now is making the sexual revolution of the 60s and 70s pale in comparison,” says Eli Coleman, director of the Program in Human Sexuality at the University of Minnesota. He called Laumann’s work the most comprehensive since that of acclaimed researcher Alfred Kinsey, who surveyed people about sex in the 1940s.

Still, Laumann and his staff found that social services, the church and law enforcement have been slow to address this latest sexual revolution.

For instance, they found no shelters in any of the studied communities for gay domestic abuse victims. And most churches they examined were not good at “giving guidance about how you manage a stable, but non-married relationship,” Laumann says.

“It’s not approved. It’s not talked about,” he says. “Or they just look the other way.”

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