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David Boreanaz From Bones Has Skeletons Of His Own

May 6th, 2010 by The Babe

Handsome David Boreanaz from the TV series, Bones, appears to have a few skeletons in his own closet. A few days ago he admitted to marital infidelities after claims that the woman wanted money to keep quiet.

In 2005, Boreanaz began starring opposite Emily Deschanel on the popular current prime time television series, Bones. Boreanaz has been married to actress and Playmate Jaime Bergman since November 24, 2001

The “other woman” appears to have lawyered up and hired legal bitch Gloria Allred after getting a call from Boreanaz’s attorney.  Allred is quoted as saying to RadarOnline.com:

‘Now that Mr. Boreanaz is attacking her, she has decided to tell the story of their relationship, so that the truth will come out.’

Allred said the woman will be telling her story and added:

‘She is not going to be intimidated.’

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Larry Kings Affair Deserving Of The Jerry Springer Show

April 20th, 2010 by The Babe

Larry & 8th Wife Shawn

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Larry King is recognized as one of the premier broadcast interviewers. King has conducted some 40,000 interviews with politicians, athletes, entertainers, and other newsmakers. He has won an Emmy Award, two Peabody Awards, and ten Cable ACE Awards.

In a story fit for the Jerry Springer show, King is being accused by 8th wife Shawn Southwick of having an extramarital affair with her sister, Shannon Engemann, Engemann is denying that she did anything wrong.

The tabloid claims Larry spent over a million dollars to put up Shannon at the swank Beverly Hills Hotel and bought her expensive gifts including a car.

Shawn’s 45 year-old sister Shannon reportedly told a friend “I had sex with Larry and he bought me an expensive car.”

Shawn said that she wouldn’t have felt so crazy if she’d caught Larry fooling around with a stranger. The fact that he’s cheated with her sister has made it so much worse.

When Shawn learned about her husband’s illicit affair, she took a little revenge – by having an affair herself.

Back in November 2008, the National Enquirer claimed Shawn cheated on Larry with their son’s baseball coach and 29 year-old aspiring actor, Hector Penate,

This little tryst (if true) sets her into the Cougar category as there appears to be a 20 years age difference between Shawn and Hector.

Whether or not the allegations are true, take a look back at the legendary late night host, who’s been married eight times to seven women, and his lengthy list of ex-wives …

  • Freda Miller married King in 1952 when he was 19. Their marriage
    ended in 53 when the marriage was annulled by their parents.
  • Annette Kaye Married to King briefly and gave birth to their son Larry Jr. in 1961. It’s said the King did not meet Larry Jr. until the son was in his thirties A little insight into King’s character? He divorced Kaye while she was pregnant
  • Alene Akins A former Playboy bunny. Like [tag]Liz
    Taylor[/tag], he married and divorced the same woman – twice. They
    had a son in 1962 But King and Akins obviously were still hot for one
    another. Five years and one wife later, (King married Mary Francis ‘Mickey’
    Stuphin in 1963, only to divorce her in 1966), the pair remarried. While
    their second go-around was also short-lived, as the couple divorced in 1972,
    Alene gave birth to daughter Chaia King in 1969.
  • Mary Francis “Mickey” Sutphin
  • Sharon Lepore 1976 – 1983 Math teacher and production
    assistant
  • Julie Alexander 1989 -1992 He met business woman Julie Alexander
    in 89 and proposed on their first date.
  • Shawn Southwick 1997 …. He married Shawn three days before he
    underwent heart surgery to clear a clogged blood vessel. They have 2 sons On
    King and Southwick’s 10th anniversary in September 2007, Southwick boasted
    she was “the only [wife] to have lasted into the two digits”.

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Is Lust The Reason We Have Extramarital Affairs

March 16th, 2008 by The Babe

cheatingtvshow2.jpgThere must be a million reasons why partners cheat on one another. Probably the one that stand’s out above all others is Lust! Unfortunately many of us let this primal urge dictate how we conduct outselves towards the people we supposedly love. Extramarital affairs have been around forever.

A recent survey of 10,000 people by the University of Chicago showed that 22% of men and 15% of women admitted cheating at least once during their relationship. So why do they stray?

There usually isn’t one reason why a partner strays from a relationship and there is no blanket profile of the typical cheater.

  • The grass is always greener on the other side – sad but true. What we don’t have looks a lot better than what we have already

  • Men are after the “spice of life” – variety. Men simply appear to want more sex and more satisfying sex

  • Women cheat for emotional reasons, for attention, to be reassured of their desirability or because they fell in love with someone else.

  • Most studies indicate the affair can happen early or late in a relationship, married or unmarried, kids or childless, man or woman, young or old and rich or poor – there are really no factors to dictate if a person is likely to cheat or not.

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Cheating Wives On The Increase In Singapore

February 29th, 2008 by The Babe

Things are changing in Singapore. At one time, wives did the checking up on their supposedly unfaithful husbands, but it appears that a increasing numbers of men are asking private investigators to check on their cheating wives.Why? The little Chinese married woman is a strong, successful career woman today. Combine that with travel opportunities and more free time away from her husband and you get cheating wives and cuckolded husbands.

Is nothing sacred anymore?  Some husbands have resorted to installing spyware on their wives’ computers to track their e-mail and messages.

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Online Flirting Or Cheating Husband?

May 23rd, 2007 by The Babe

Dear Amy: My husband and I have been married four years. We have been together for 12 years. Our son is a year old. By all accounts, we have a pretty good marriage and enjoy a nice lifestyle.

Recently I was using my husband’s laptop and was able to view his e-mail account. I know I should have respected his privacy. I found out that he sent two electronic Valentine’s Day cards to two ex-girlfriends. The card says he missed their conversations and was thinking about them.

One woman wrote back to my husband instructing him to not contact her again because she is in a serious relationship and does not want to communicate with “single men.”

I am bothered by this revelation because it shows that my husband has not revealed to these women that he is married. When I confronted him, he was angry at me for reading his e-mails. He also insisted that he has done nothing improper. He said that he has not contacted those women in years, and the cards were just to stay in touch with them. He says I am overreacting.

I am pretty sure that my husband is not physically cheating on me. However, I am still very bothered by this. Am I overreacting?

Bothered in Los Angeles

Dear Bothered: This incident could be a gift to your marriage, but only if you use it to deepen your intimate understanding of each other. You can’t do this by avoiding and ignoring. You do it by drilling into the heart of your union and talking about things, even when it’s painful to do so.

Husbands and wives sometimes reach a point in the relationship when they daydream about previous relationships, wondering “what might have been.” The Internet makes it almost too easy to reach out.

After 12 years together, you and your husband have entered the grand and challenging “adolescence” of your relationship. Invite him into counseling with you so that you can explore your feelings and frustrations in a supportive environment.

Cheating On Spouses For Many Reasons

May 22nd, 2007 by The Babe

“Variety is the zest of life,” writes Jake of East Hartford, Conn.

A good number of people seem to share that viewpoint. MSNBC.com/iVillage’s Lust, Love & Loyalty survey found that about 22 percent of respondents have cheated on their partners. When they asked readers to share their stories and views about infidelity, they received numerous tales of betrayal and its aftermath, as well as various reasons for cheating.

Whether it was a desire to fulfill emotional needs or sample an assortment of partners, which our survey suggested were two popular reasons, people have no shortage of justifications for their cheating ways.

“I have strayed in most of my relationships, sometimes because my partners were the ones cheating and I would find out and get even. Other times, my partners were cheating, but would accuse me of cheating to cover their own infidelities, so I figured if I was going to constantly be accused, why not go ahead and do it?” explains A. Aguero from Fort Worth, Texas.
Read on for more readers’ tales and opinions on straying and staying true:
“Monogamy definitely has its place, but I just can’t seem to locate that place. I am in love with the hunt. After I catch her, the fire dies and I become bored with her.”

— Kevin, Brooklyn, N.Y.

I found out almost a year ago now that my husband was cheating. I found his cell phone bill with pages of text messages and phone calls to this one particular number. Sure enough, when I called it, the woman told me she was in a relationship with him. We have two young children and our sex life was GREAT. I didn’t ever think he even had the energy for anyone else. The problem is now, with all the evidence, he STILL won’t admit that he was ever with her. … I still love him (always will), but now I am on antidepressants to help me cope with all the mess he’s put me through.
— Anonymous

I’ve been cheating on my boyfriend for three months. He won’t have sex with me or hang out with me, and so I found someone who wants me every night. I haven’t left my boyfriend yet because of our baby, but I eventually will. … I don’t regret anything!
— Judy, Honolulu

My partner has cheated on me for years yet I stick with him. He says it all about variety. We’ve been together 20 years and he says it has nothing to do with OUR relationship, OUR sex life or MY physical attributes. It really hurts but I justify staying because everything else in our relationship is amazing. I really feel he is my soul mate in every other part of our lives. … I believe you’re either inclined to cheat or your not — I’m not, he is.
— John, Michigan

I think people can find reasons to cheat whenever they want. However, there is no excuse for cheating. I am in the Air Force, and in my first marriage my wife cheated on me while I was deployed. I am now remarried to the love of my life and last week I was devastated when she told me she is having an affair with another man and she had no regrets. This is occurring while we speak and I am deployed again to Iraq.
— Michael

I think women are all too often categorized as cheating because of emotional needs. My husband is phenomenal in every way. He is loving, caring, patient and wonderfully wicked in bed. I cheat, not because he lacks anything, but because I travel a lot and enjoy sex way too much to go for long dry spells when I’m away from home. … He doesn’t know and we are very happy.
— Anonymous

Nothing is worth destroying your marriage and family over. You’re not just cheating on your spouse, but if you have young children, you’re cheating on them, too. Being unfaithful is one of the most selfish things you can do.
— Shannon, Pittsburgh

Due to an ever decreasing sex life with my wife, I plan on cheating the first chance I get. I won’t regret it, because she will have deserved me straying because she won’t take care of my needs. I’ve expressed that I need more from her, but apparently she’s not capable or unwilling to give more. Believe it or not, it’s actually the emotional connection I crave as much as the physical connection.
— John, Ventura, Calif.

Cheating is an unfortunate side effect of a relationship clearly over. While I understand those who cheat claiming they were either “bored” or “frustrated” in their relationships, I can’t help but think many couples resort to that option all too quickly.
— Anonymous

Before I got involved in an extra-marital relationship, I thought it was a taboo thing. Then I realized it helped spice up my marriage and I’m more pleasant to be around in the house. But nevertheless, I did feel guilty about my action toward my primary partner. He is a hard-working man, great father and husband … I don’t have any desire to leave him.
— Tifa, Minnesota

I think the problem with most relationships is that people don’t wait to find the right person. You should be compatible in the present and with future goals. I don’t try to change my husband, and I would never cheat — even if I were tempted. It’s not worth it and I wouldn’t disrespect him.
— Jennie, Austin, Texas

Q&A A True Friend Wouldn’t Ask

April 18th, 2007 by The Babe

Dear Cheryl: There’s a couple that my husband and I have been friends with for 15 years. We’re all very close. They’ve been having [tag]marital problems

for the last couple of years. Basically, they’re not having sex.

The wife has done everything she can to make her husband understand that this is having a negative effect on other aspects of their marriage, but he hasn’t done anything about it. She decided to have an affair.

I’ve tried to talk her into going to counseling, and she claims that she’ll go, but she hasn’t made an appointment yet. I even gave her the name and number of a wonderful social worker/family counselor who helped me many years ago when I was having trouble sorting out some life choices.

In the meantime, I have trouble understanding why she is after her husband to work on things while she’s having an affair. She says it’s something that she needs to do for herself, that she deserves to be happy. I told her that she can’t think clearly while she’s involved with another man. She disagrees and believes she is growing and moving in a new direction. I have come to realize that there is nothing more that I can do except try to be supportive when the walls come crashing down. Now here’s the problem:

My husband and I have been happily married for 12 years. We simply don’t keep secrets from each other. By confiding in me, my friend has put me in a terrible position. I can’t tell my husband because he would absolutely go to her husband and tell him, and I don’t think it’s our place to interfere to that degree. I have a heavy heart, keeping something from my husband while trying to be supportive of my friend. And I have to face her husband knowing what I know.

I told her I cannot discuss the other man with her, and she has respected that. I will continue to discuss her marriage issues with her and encourage her to seek therapy. True friends don’t run when the going gets tough.

However, how do I continue to carry this burden? So far, I’ve rationalized it by telling myself my husband would be crushed at this news and it would be something he really would not want to know. I’d do anything to prevent him from feeling the hurt I feel over this. I can’t turn my back on our friends, but I’m having a tough time coping. Any suggestions?

– What Are Friends For?

Dear What Are Friends For? Would a true friend put you in the position this woman has put you in? I don’t think so. You’re wrong, whatever you do.

  • (a) If you don’t tell your husband, then you’re keeping secrets from him and violating a basic principle of your marriage.
  • (b) If you tell your husband, then you’re asking him to keep secrets from his friend, which he won’t want to do.
  • (c) If you tell your husband and he tells his friend, then the two of you are up to your ears in someone else’s dirty laundry.
  • (d) If her husband finds out that you knew and didn’t tell him, he’ll resent you.
  • You have some hard work to do. First, you have to recognize the very sad truth that the happy relationship between the four of you is over.

    Then tell your husband that you don’t want to go out with them anymore. Tell him there are things going out that you don’t approve of and leave it at that. It was bad enough when you sat there knowing they weren’t having sex, but it’s impossible for you to play along when you know she’s cheating on him.

    Then, tell this woman that you can’t be her confidant any longer, that it’s too distressing. Whatever happens, whether she stays married or gets divorced, whether her husband finds out or not, the relationship the four of you had is over.

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    Nine Years Of A Cheating Husband

    March 16th, 2007 by The Babe

    DEAR ABBY: I have been married to my husband, “Rolly,” for nine and a half years. I have just confirmed that he has been cheating on me — again! I had my suspicions and began checking his phone records. I love Rolly unconditionally.

    We had a huge fight about it, and the girl and her friends were calling my home saying they were going to slit my throat. Then the phone calls stopped — until yesterday. The girl was trying to reach Rolly, and when I answered there was only silence on the other end of the line. I know he called her friend the night before, the one who said she would cut my throat. It’s hard to believe he would call someone who would say that to me, but he did. He tried to lie about it, but I have the phone records.

    Please tell me what to do. My heart tells me one thing and my head tells me another.

    – BROKENHEARTED IN COLUMBUS, MISS.

    DEAR BROKENHEARTED: You have my sympathy. I’m sure it hasn’t been easy being married to a womanizer, and from your description of your husband’s behavior, Rolly definitely qualifies. I hope you will contact your doctor so you can be checked for STDs, because the quality of the women he’s chasing could not be lower.

    The time has come to ask yourself “the” question: Are you better off with him or without him? And when you answer it, please use your head this time, because listening to your heart has given you nothing but grief.

    Until Death Do You Part

    March 9th, 2007 by The Babe

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    DEAR MARGO: The love of my life recently passed away. Now I need to know how to handle a situation with his widow. (Yes, he was married.) While we were seeing each other, she had reasons to suspect he was cheating and did enough research to connect my name to him, and even came and questioned me.

    Per his wishes, I denied the affair and provided logical explanations for the various “evidence” she had. I think she wanted to believe me (us), but I know she was never 100 percent convinced.

    Now that he’s gone, I would prefer that she continue in ignorance of his indiscretions, but I know that sooner or later she will come across a collection of letters, notes, poems, trinkets and treasures that will undeniably confirm her suspicions.

    I thought about sending a card that says I had lied to her before, but I am now ready to answer her questions openly and honestly if she still wants the answers. But I would hate to seem as if I’m “rubbing it in” during her time of grief.

    Should I wait some period of time before I send it, or should I forget it altogether and wait for her to come to me when she discovers the collection?

    — DEAD MAN’S MISTRESS IN NORTH CAROLINA

    DEAR DEAD: You seem pretty sure there’s “a collection.” He may not have kept a thing. In any case, do not make the first move. This woman may never get in touch with you.

    And if she does, let your gut tell you whether or not you want to give her all this food for thought, or protect your love in death as you did in life.

    — MARGO, THOUGHTFULLY

    A Cheater – A Crook – Derelict In His Duties

    February 12th, 2007 by The Babe

    A recent news article from the ChinaDaily had their article head line focusing on the shamed fellow having had an extramarital affair. Turns out, a little extramarital action between the sheets was nothing compared to his having led “a decadent life, leading to huge losses for the country.”

    Not only did 63 year old Pang Jiayu, former vice-chairman of Shaaxi Provincial Committee of the Chinese People’s Political Consultative Conference (CPPCC) accept bribes and have an affair with a married woman, but according to the circular, Pang’s wrongdoings broke Party rules and relevant national laws, creating a negative social and political influence.

    During his tenure, Pang approved the launch of Baoji Finance Securities Co, which suffered losses worth 300 million yuan ($40 million). It seems he was derelict in his duties while overseeing the construction of the Fengjiashan reservoir, also in Baoji, which indirectly caused six blasts and economic losses of more than 10 million yuan ($1.2 million). It has been reported that Pang had taken 480,000 yuan ($60,000) in bribes between 1997 and 1999.

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