Americans Canadians May Share Views on Cheating
June 16th, 2010 by The Babe-
One in three Canadians say they’ve had an affair, with Ontarians and Quebecers the most likely to have stepped out on a partner (36% and 34% respectively).
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Married men are much more likely to have cheated than married women (13% vs. 8%) although when it comes to having a physical relationship with someone else who is married, the genders are nearly neck and neck.
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More than half of Canadians believe everyone thinks about cheating at some point.
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Over a third of Canadians figure cheating doesn’t mean a lack of love for one’s partner, while 18% of Canadians think cheating once can actually be positive for a relationship.
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Quebeckers are especially forgiving, or at least understanding, of infidelity – 53% of respondents in La Belle Province said cheating on someone doesn’t mean you don’t love them, and 28% said a one-off affair can actually be beneficial to the relationship.
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A startling 40% of Canadians say they know they were cheated on at some point
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Only 13% of Canadians think being unhappily married but staying together for the kids’ sake is
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Apparently getting back at a cheating spouse is only a reasonable excuse for 18% of those surveyed.
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Four in five of Canadians would confront their significant others if they suspected them of cheating.
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60% of Canadians would check their credit card statements or phone bills for evidence, and nearly half of Canadians would go so far as to follow their partners to see where they were wandering to.
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If amateur private eye activities unearthed evidence of an affair, 50% would confront their partners with the proof and talk about it (with women being more likely to take this approach than men).
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Two out of five Canadians would ask if their partner was cheating and give him or her a chance to come clean before they waved the evidence in their face..
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29% would end the relationship then and there
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43% of Canadians would keep our options open and try to work it out.
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Only 10% of Canadians would automatically forgive our partner’s transgressions.
Ultimately forgiving the spouse or partner could depend on the nature of the affair.
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Nearly two thirds of Canadians would find our significant other having an affair with our best friend the hardest to forgive
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28% said it would be most difficult if it was someone at work
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One in four thought an ex would be the biggest blow.
And if their partners did “fess up”, what then?
When we seek out that old boyfriend or girlfriend on Facebook, are we innocently checking in to see how that person’s life is going? Or are we secretly hoping for a confidential hookup?
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77% of Canadians admit that we’ve been in contact with someone we used to be in a relationship with, though it’s nearly split down the middle when it comes to the number of Canadians who initiated the contact and those of Canadians who found ourselves on the receiving end of an ex reaching out.
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Just over half of Canadians figure Facebook and other social networking sites are the best way to
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only 10% of Canadians think looking up an former flame is a big no-no.
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two out of five of Canadians would be willing to chat with an ex-lover because we might be able
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Another two out of five would exchange cursory updates but not try to carry on communication.
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Folks in British Columbia. were much more open to the idea of being friends with an ex (53%) than those in Saskatchewan and Manitoba (35%), while Quebecers were the most likely to say a firm “non!” – what’s in the past is in the past.
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In general, they found women are more likely to think that reconnecting with a past lover is a bad idea.
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A full third of those surveyed believe that all this talk of being friends with exes is baloney, and the only reason former flames try to open lines of communication is to re-establish a romantic relationship.
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Nearly two-thirds of Canadians would never get back together with an ex,
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one in five Canadians pine for the one that got away, and would do anything to re-ignite a specific previous relationship.
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Another Stupid Unfaithful Wife
June 10th, 2010 by The Babe
How stupid can you get? Suzanne Corona, a Batavia, New York wife has been charged with adultery by local police.
Police say an officer saw Corona and 29-year-old Justin Amend having sex on a park picnic table, in view of children and other adults, in broad daylight.
“He had a shirt, and his pants were down,” Officer Eric Hill said.
Corona and Amend were charged with public lewdness, but Corona is also accused of adultery, becoming the 13th person in New York state history to face the charge.
The cheating wife has her own take on the incident…..
“We were not naked on a picnic table – we were sitting there on the bench, fully clothed. His pants were on, my clothing was on,” Corona said. “Yes, it was inappropriate to behave in that manner in a public area.
“His genitals were exposed, perhaps, by the zipper, but that’s it – but no one would see that. I want to make clear to everyone nothing was out there, nothing was showing,” she said.
Joseph Corona, the husband, says he’s sad and hurt, but he forgives his wife.
“I’ve got 40-some more years to spend with my wife, [and] I’m not going to throw it away over one incident,” he said. “I wish that the charges were dropped and that we could resolve this as man and wife. It’s more of a private matter.”
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Cheating Wife Gets Public Humiliation After Extramarital Affair
June 9th, 2010 by The BabeThe home get’s plenty of street exposure for his rant as it is just down the street from the Jockey Lot, a well-known flea market in the area.
“All Welcome Except Cheaters Pull N 4 Pics” was scrawled in white on one brown cardboard sign.
The writing on the mobile home reads: “Lying Cheating No Good Wife Will Lose N Divorce.”
On one of his signs he’s requesting “an attorney with balls”.
Clark said in a video that hit YouTube that his wife had an affair with his “boss man.”
After viewing the interview, I’m starting to see exactly why she cheated on him.
Check out the video……
Cheating Wife & Scorned Husband
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Was Peace Prize Winner Getting A Piece On The Side
May 7th, 2010 by The Babe
Is it possible our 2009 Nobel Peace Prize winner was getting a piece on the side? President Barack Obama has been accused of cheating on his wife Michelle with a campaign worker. The American supermarket tabloid, the National Enquirer, claims that Barack Obama and Vera Baker had a fling at Washington, D.C. hotel and a security video had all the records!
While running for US Senate, rumor has it that Obama secretly met Vera Baker at a hotel in Washington D.C.
One of the Enquirer’s “confidential investigations” apparently has learned that Obama first became close to 35 year-old Vera Baker in 2004 when she worked tirelessly to get him elected to the US Senate, raising millions in campaign contributions.
It appears that a hired limo driver confirmed the story to be true. He claims he picked Vera Baker up from a friend’s house and then carried her to The Hotel George. The driver then apparently waited in the lobby while Vera went to a room, which he says was Obama’s room. To the best of limo driver’s knowledge, Vera did not have her own room at the hotel.
It’s also being rumored that Baker was suddenly taken off the campaign midway through. Speculation is that Michelle Obama didn’t approve of Vera and was uncomfortable with her and Barack working so close together. Is this another Monica Lewinsky/Bill Clinton scandal? Or is the media desperate to start trouble wherever they can???
Is there anything beyond them staying in the same building? I admit, I thought the same of reports that John Edwards cheated on his wife with, knocked up and tried to pay off Rielle Hunter were entirely fictional. How wrong I was.
Initially, the scandal first broke in October, 2008. Ms Baker then proceeded to leave the political scene and move to Martinique, where she married. She returned to Washington after Obama’s election and began working for Illinois Senator Roland Burris. But once the scandal broke again, she left the senators office.
Although Vera Baker has denied the allegations, the Enquirer has offered a whopping sum of $1 million for confirmation.
The cyberspace storm of innuendo and unfounded rumors isn’t likely to die down anytime soon and it appears that many don’t believe the Enquirer story. Is that because it’s probably not true or simply because they choose to believe that one of their idols is not capable of blighting his marriage and career with infidelities?
It’s sadly true that though the National Enquirer is very often wrong in their attention grabbing headlines, very often there’s some foundation to their stories.
Michelle Obama isn’t a wife I’d like to cross pass with over an extramarital affair. I’d say she’s very likely to “whip his black ass”. For your sake, Mr. President, I’m hoping the gossip is untrue!
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Extramarital Affair with Country Star LeeAnn Rimes
May 3rd, 2010 by The BabeThe song included the lyrics:
“What have I done?/I broke the heart of the sweetest man/What have I done?/I broke the heart of the only man who’s ever loved me.”
It makes you wonder if the the song was written during the height of Rimes cheating scandal that broke out in 2009. Rimes split from husband Dean Sheremet, her husband of seven years, in late 2009 after an onset romance with actor Eddie Cibrian turned into a real-life one.
Rimes met Cibrian on the set of “Northern Lights,” a lifetime movie, and their extramarital affair began soon after.
Sheremet filed papers in December 2009 to divorce Rimes, In the petition for divorce, Sheremet asked for Rimes to pay spousal support plus all attorney fees and costs. His lawyer Stacy D. Phillips also requested the court not to grant spousal support to Rimes.
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Royal Cheat Gets Kicked To The Curb
April 27th, 2010 by The Babe
It seems cheating runs rampant in all circles. Sweden’s Royal Family just got stung with a world class cheater.
Princess Madeleine has called off her planned wedding to Jonas Bergstrom, following press reports that Bergstrom was “intimate” with a college student during their engagement.
Norwegian magazine Se og Hor published an interview with Norwegian handball star Tora Uppstrom Berg in which she claimed she had been “intimate” with Bergstrom during a night at Swedish ski resort Are last year. She told the magazine that he called himself Jacob Bernstrom, and that it wasn’t until she called his cell phone a few days later that she realized who he was.
Princess Madeleine Therese Amelie Josephine, 27, is the youngest child of Sweden’s King Carl XVI Gustaf and Queen Silvia.
Her older sister, Crown Princess Victoria, is due to marry gym owner Daniel Westling in June. (gym owner? now that’s a good one!)
Princess Madeleine and Bergstrom met through shared friends in 1999 and became a couple during the summer of 2002, according to Swedish media reports. Madeleine said in an interview that it was love at first sight, and Bergstrom said he “fell in love with her blue eyes and wonderful laughter,” Swedish daily Expressen wrote.
Bergstrom proposed to Madeleine last June on the Italian island of Capri. After King Carl Gustaf XVI gave his approval — and the Swedish government subsequently signed off on their engagement as required by law — the couple announced their engagement to the public on August 11.
But just as quickly as the engagement was announced, something happened. The couple last appeared together in public at the Nobel dinner in Stockholm in December 2009. Over the last few weeks, Swedish press has covered the couple’s potential problems with an intensity never seen before.
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Video On Why Men Cheat
April 27th, 2010 by The BabeExplaining reasons why men cheat …..
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Is Jim Carrey An Authority on Cheating
April 19th, 2010 by The Babe
Enough is enough. I’m sick to death of everyone beating to death the “Scandal of the Year“. There hasn’t been a day go by when Tiger Woods, the “Cheater of the Year“, isn’t making headlines. If it isn’t his golf game or his string of mistresses, then it’s the “inside scoop” on when Elin Woods is expected to divorce Tiger.
Now we have another loser, Jim Carrey, whose tweeting just keeps getting stranger and stranger since his breakup with Jenny McCarthy. Jim seems to think anyone will care what his viewpoint is on the Tiger Woods scandal.
“No wife is blind enough to miss that much infidelity,” Carrey posted on his Twitter account. “Elin had 2 b a willing participant on the ride 4 whatever reason. kids/lifestyle ;^)”
“I want 2 make it CLEAR that I do not condone infidelity at all, but 2 some degree the responsibilty 4 it is shared by both people! ;^)”
The fact that Jim would presume that Elin was a participant in these string of infidelities is simply a punch below the belt.
The reasons for Tiger’s infidelity or state of Tiger’s marriage is no one’s business. Elin and Tiger shouldn’t have to explain or defend their positions to anyone.
Jim needs to get back on his meds….
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Extramarital Affairs Are A Worldwide Affair
February 20th, 2010 by The BabeThe dubious title of the world’s infidelity capital goes to a ………..
Check out the article as you’ll be surprised at these citizens that cheat at such astonishing levels, that they even put the French to shame!
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Adultery Leaves A Trail Of Broken Hearts And Marriages
December 29th, 2009 by The Babe
Adultery was once considered a sin – or at least a secret. Not online. The Internet dating craze is blazing a trail of broken marriages thanks to dozens of sites inviting participants to identify themselves as “not so happily married,” “married but that shouldn’t matter” or even, “married but we swing.”
Studies show some 30 percent of online dating visitors are married – and recent research by the University of Florida reports that what starts out as flirting and cybersex quickly escalates into the real thing.
The Internet became an easy escape for “Barbara,” a 43-year-old married New Yorker who dated about 60 men in three years until she met Steve, who’s also married – but now sneaking around with Barbara. “We see each other once or twice a week,” she says. “We have a lot in common, have a great time together and the sex is phenomenal.”
She says a cold husband sent her surfing for more. “There was no warmth or any physical affection,” she says glumly. She tried cajoling her husband into seeing a marriage counselor, but after only one visit, he refused to return. She didn’t want a divorce because of their 7-year-old daughter, so she posted an ad in one of the adult dating sites online.
“I’m not interested in jeopardizing my marriage or anyone else’s,” she told The Post. “I just wanted to find someone special I could click with.”
Other women interviewed by The Post say they’ve been searching for deeper emotional relationships than their husbands are able to give – but aren’t ready to leave.
“I guess the sex just isn’t what it used to be when we first met,” says Nicole, 28, a married New Yorker.
“I miss the feeling of sex being new and exciting. It’s addicting.”
Addiction is something Chris Samuels, the co-director of a sexual addiction treatment center in Greenwich Village, understands all too well.
She’s treated many married and unmarried patients who’ve gotten caught up in Internet lust.
“Its power is almost trance-inducing,” she says. “You can troll these sites and have a fantasy ready and waiting. Cybersex can provide a quick and powerful high. It’s like crack cocaine to sex addicts.”
Alfred, 49, is a self-described Internet Lothario who says he’s been “swinging” for 23 years.
Before going online, he would post ads in “swinger magazines,” sometimes waiting two to four months to set up a first meeting. Now his desires can be gratified almost instantly by posting ads online.
“While I’m open to a relationship, I’d prefer someone I can meet for no-strings mutual sexual pleasure on a continuing basis,” he says.
Alfred’s new online ads generally attract several interested women (“I’m a seller in a buyer’s market,” he says proudly).
He usually hooks up with married women, but says there are plenty of singles who don’t mind that he’s already spoken for.
Unfortunately, while these spouses are sowing their wild oats, there’s likely to be someone at home who’s getting hurt.
John LaSage, 43, from California, could attest to that – his wife left him and his two teenage daughters to take off with an Internet boyfriend.
The experience led him to create chatcheaters.com – a Web site designed to help dissuade potential cheaters and to comfort those who’ve been hurt by them.
“Chatting is OK, cheating is not,” says LaSage.
“People should realize how quickly relationships can form online. Flirting can lead to real-world affairs.”
If you suspect your spouse of having an online affair, “Bring the issue out into the open,” he says.
“Look out for the warning signs” – like excessive Internet use, new email accounts, turning off the computer when you walk in the room.
“If you just want a sexual hit, you can masturbate a lot quicker than having an affair,” she says.
“But it’s about gratification. They want someone to find them attractive, someone to want them passionately.”
But not every married person who’s gone the online route has found the affair of their dreams.
Wayne, a 49-year-old man from New Jersey, complains that his inbox is usually cluttered with undesirable partners and a fair share of transsexuals and cross-dressers.
But that may be just the ticket for a 34-year-old Lower East Side “Rockerdude” who advertises online that he’s hoping to make sweet music with men, women – and anything in between.
“Yes, I am married, but we have a very liberal, open-minded relationship – so be brave,” he writes.
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