Cuckhold Husband Burns Down Home
April 23rd, 2007 by The BabeAfter being told she was cheating on him, Steven Benham attacked his wife and set fire to their home.
Damage was estimated at £23,500.
The wift said: “We lost absolutely everything.”
Benham denies assault, breach of the peace and wilful fire raising. The trial continues.
Hell Hath No Fury…….
Top 10: Signs She’s Cheating
April 18th, 2007 by The BabeHere are some signs that she might have taken a roll in another man’s hay bale. But before you start suspecting your girlfriend or accusing your wife of cheating, remember that these are just signs. Ultimately, you should trust your instincts.
You must also be on the look out for combinations of these cheating signs for a more definitive indication of trouble. Lastly, there is the chance, however slight, that she is actually doing some of these things to provoke jealousy or to attract you , so be careful, be wise and, most importantly, be smart.
Q&A A True Friend Wouldn’t Ask
April 18th, 2007 by The Babefor the last couple of years. Basically, they’re not having sex.
The wife has done everything she can to make her husband understand that this is having a negative effect on other aspects of their marriage, but he hasn’t done anything about it. She decided to have an affair.
I’ve tried to talk her into going to counseling, and she claims that she’ll go, but she hasn’t made an appointment yet. I even gave her the name and number of a wonderful social worker/family counselor who helped me many years ago when I was having trouble sorting out some life choices.
In the meantime, I have trouble understanding why she is after her husband to work on things while she’s having an affair. She says it’s something that she needs to do for herself, that she deserves to be happy. I told her that she can’t think clearly while she’s involved with another man. She disagrees and believes she is growing and moving in a new direction. I have come to realize that there is nothing more that I can do except try to be supportive when the walls come crashing down. Now here’s the problem:
My husband and I have been happily married for 12 years. We simply don’t keep secrets from each other. By confiding in me, my friend has put me in a terrible position. I can’t tell my husband because he would absolutely go to her husband and tell him, and I don’t think it’s our place to interfere to that degree. I have a heavy heart, keeping something from my husband while trying to be supportive of my friend. And I have to face her husband knowing what I know.
I told her I cannot discuss the other man with her, and she has respected that. I will continue to discuss her marriage issues with her and encourage her to seek therapy. True friends don’t run when the going gets tough.
However, how do I continue to carry this burden? So far, I’ve rationalized it by telling myself my husband would be crushed at this news and it would be something he really would not want to know. I’d do anything to prevent him from feeling the hurt I feel over this. I can’t turn my back on our friends, but I’m having a tough time coping. Any suggestions?
– What Are Friends For?
Dear What Are Friends For? Would a true friend put you in the position this woman has put you in? I don’t think so. You’re wrong, whatever you do.
You have some hard work to do. First, you have to recognize the very sad truth that the happy relationship between the four of you is over.
Then tell your husband that you don’t want to go out with them anymore. Tell him there are things going out that you don’t approve of and leave it at that. It was bad enough when you sat there knowing they weren’t having sex, but it’s impossible for you to play along when you know she’s cheating on him.
Then, tell this woman that you can’t be her confidant any longer, that it’s too distressing. Whatever happens, whether she stays married or gets divorced, whether her husband finds out or not, the relationship the four of you had is over.
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Joint Tax Returns Reveal Infidelity
April 18th, 2007 by The BabeSince financial infidelity often accompanies sexual infidelity, Houston advises married women who file joint returns with their husbands to closely examine all tax forms and related documents for hidden clues.
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Paying Wife For Sex?
April 17th, 2007 by The BabeThis scenario was repeated each time they made love, for more than 30 years, with him thinking that it was a cute way for her to afford new clothes and other incidentals that she needed.
Arriving home around noon one day, she was surprised to find her husband in a very drunken state. During the next few minutes, he explained that his employer was going through a process of corporate downsizing, and he had been let go. It was unlikely that, at the age of 59, he’d be able to find another position that paid anywhere near what he’d been earning, and therefore, they were financially ruined.
Calmly, his wife handed him a bank book which showed more than thirty years of steady deposits and interest totalling nearly $1 million. Then she showed him certificates of deposits issued by the bank which were worth over $2 million, and informed him that they were one of the largest depositors in the bank.
She explained that for the more than three decades she had “charged” him for sex, these holdings had multiplied and these were the results of her savings and investments.
Faced with evidence of cash and investments worth over $3 million, her husband was so astounded he could barely speak, but finally he found his voice and blurted out, “If I’d had any idea what you were doing, I would have given you all my business!”
That’s when she shot him.
You know, sometimes, men just don’t know when to keep their mouths shut.
Cheating Husband Impotent
April 14th, 2007 by The BabeIt appears that Amos, a resident of Namasale in Uganda was caught cheating by his wife.
Amos has accused his wife of witchcraft in court. Apparently Mary put a curse on Amos and he told the court that
“he would lose his manhood whenever he got a new catch”
“witchcraft has made him impotent whenever he tries out other women.”
When asked to defend herself, Mary admitted the offence and Amos threw her out of his home.
I’m thinking Mary might be able to “sell” her curse. I know about 20 unhappy wives that would like to serve up something like this to their husbands
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Fired For Blogging About Affair
April 5th, 2007 by The BabeHe apparently set up an Internet blog that accused his wife of carrying on an affair with the Aurora Fire Chief. Werking has been with the Aurora City Attorney’s office for about 15 years. Apparently he was fired because the “blog disrupted the harmony in the workplace” and that he “breached city confidences” in his blog.
Court records show the couple began divorce proceedings in January in Arapahoe County. The next month, Rob Werking created an Internet blog accusing his wife of cheating with Aurora Fire Chief Casey Jones.
In a February 23 blog entry, Rob Werking wrote, “This space is devoted to the pain, darkness and despair I am dealing with stemming from Julie’s decision to have an affair with another married man and co-worker.”
In various blog entries, Rob Werking accuses his wife and the 58-year-old Chief of using city equipment and city time to further their affair. He said his wife and the Chief were calling and texting each other “constantly.” “I guess the old bag Fire Chief could satisfy some needs with a load full of Viagra, but the real attraction is his ability to schedule mid-week golf meetings,” reads a blog entry from March 14. Werking said his wife and the Chief would frequently leave work to play golf together.
Werking said he found other evidence of an affair “including a Hallmark love card that was not meant for me. KC’s sign on information on my home computer. Working late, losing weight, dressing sexier … I guess when you are the spouse for 12 years, you just know. Additionally, information gleaned from the Internet shows she was living a double life,” reads another blog entry.
Werking said he plans to file a civil rights action against the Aurora City Attorneys office claiming his firing over his blogging violated his First Amendment rights.