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Relationships After Thirties

April 10th, 2006 by The Babe

Relationships After Thirties: “First of all, put away that giant metal pole during the next lightning storm, head indoors, and stop worrying about being struck by the closest bolt. It aint gonna happen. But neither is your dream of finding a hubby if you dont change your attitude and quickly!
No matter if the relationship is platonic or romantic, theres one thing thats sure to send the other person running in the opposite direction desperation. And Terri, honey, you sound like you have it in spades.
This is not to say that I dont understand your dilemma, because I do. And your concerns are based on some pretty sound evidencejust look at the fact that there are 28 million single women over 35 compared to a mere 18 million men, and that approximately 80% of women (specifically Caucasian women in the U.S.) are married by the time theyre 30 for proof. Those are some scary stats, especially if youre ready to settle down.
But being in panic mode is not helping your cause any. So first I want you and all of the other women out there just like you to take a few deep breaths, calm yourself down, and reevaluate your plan of action. There is hope for you yet, despite Oprahs words of doom. “……

Dating Article - Is A Break Up Near?

April 6th, 2006 by The Babe

Dating Article - Is A Break Up Near?: “Not all relationships are guaranteed to last…even if you think they are perfect. All you can do is keep an eye on your behaviors as well as his to recognize-and fix-problem areas as soon as you see them. The longer you wait to address them, the more difficult they will be to repair.

Research shows that the majority (96 percent) of breakups are initiated by women. Although this statistic may seem comforting, for the men who have been dumped, it is anything but.

In retrospect, most people realize that the signs were there all along, but chose to ignore them. The most significant sign was a ‘gut’ feeling that something was wrong. A person’s gut is never wrong, its purpose is for protection. So, whatever you feel it telling you, you need to listen, even if your partner denies it.

Other common signs include the following:
* Visiting dating Web sites;
* Not marry you within three years of dating;
* Being secretive;
* Needing more time and space away from you;
* Forgetting important dates;
* Behaviors do not follow words
* Continued friendship with ex partners
* A change in routine;
* Picking fights about insignificant things;
* Spending less time together;
* Going out with friends more;
* Not expressing love as often;
* A sudden burst of devotion of love (this is usually a guilt response to an upcoming breakup).”………