Why Do We Cheat
October 23rd, 2005 by The Babe
Why Men Cheat
October 10th, 2005 by The Babe
Why Men Cheat: “They have wandering eyes. They come home from one-too-many late nights at the ‘office’; with lipstick on their collars. To whatever degree, men do cheat and they do it more than women. In the original Kinsey Report, published more than 50 years ago, approximately 60 per cent of men, compared to 30 per cent of women, were unfaithful to their spouses before the age of 40. Those numbers have remained much the same in subsequent studies. The bottom line is why do men cheat?iVillagers believe men cheat for the following five reasons: “…….
Why You Could Be The Next Clara Harris
October 7th, 2005 by The Babe
Why You Could Be the Next Clara Harris: “Any woman who has ever been cheated on could identify with Clara Harris, as they watched Oprah’s recent interview with her. Clara told Oprah her side of the story in an exclusive interview at the Mountain View Unit in Gatesville, Texas where she is currently serving time. The shock of seeing her husband leaving a hotel with his mistress after he led her to believe he was ending his affair, pushed Clara Harris over the edge. Following a physical altercation with David’s mistress, Clara ran over her husband, killing him in the hotel parking lot.”…….
Anatomy of Affairs
October 4th, 2005 by The Babe
Anatomy of Affairs: “What is it about finding out that your partner is having an affair that unlocks the floodgates of emotion; emotions so strong and intense that they seem foreign and often disturbing even to those who experience them? Most would say it’s the betrayal, the deception and the humiliation that catapults them into an emotional abyss where feelings of despair and sadness alternate with feelings of anger and rage. And even when the shock subsides, the focus of people’s thoughts remains on the sexual act mainly because it exemplifies the violation of a sacred trust between two people who have made a commitment to each other.
Is it an uncontrollable sex drive, weak mindedness or too much to drink that leads a person into the arms of another? This question is asked many times by those who struggle to make sense of ‘why did he (or she) do it?’ And while it is deserving of an answer, it behooves the person asking the question to consider that extramarital affairs have less to do with sex and more to do with unmet needs. This is not to minimize the gravity of what has occurred or down playing the pain caused by the partner who has gone outside the relationship. Instead, it is meant to point out that the dynamics of an affair, especially those with a history, are complex and go far beyond the sexual act.”……
Is it an uncontrollable sex drive, weak mindedness or too much to drink that leads a person into the arms of another? This question is asked many times by those who struggle to make sense of ‘why did he (or she) do it?’ And while it is deserving of an answer, it behooves the person asking the question to consider that extramarital affairs have less to do with sex and more to do with unmet needs. This is not to minimize the gravity of what has occurred or down playing the pain caused by the partner who has gone outside the relationship. Instead, it is meant to point out that the dynamics of an affair, especially those with a history, are complex and go far beyond the sexual act.”……
Monogamy Myth
October 3rd, 2005 by The Babe
The Monogamy Myth and the Prevalence of Affairs
Monogamy is something most people say they believe in and want for themselves. Every survey ever done on this question shows a high percentage of people think monogamy is important to marriage and that affairs are wrong. And most people, when they marry, “intend” to be monogamous. But a belief in monogamy as an ideal doesn’t prevent large numbers of people from having extramarital affairs. ………..
Monogamy is something most people say they believe in and want for themselves. Every survey ever done on this question shows a high percentage of people think monogamy is important to marriage and that affairs are wrong. And most people, when they marry, “intend” to be monogamous. But a belief in monogamy as an ideal doesn’t prevent large numbers of people from having extramarital affairs. ………..
Signs To Run From Your Lover
October 1st, 2005 by The Babe
Dating Article - Signs To Run From Your Lover: “The relationship questions asked most frequently are all basically the same. First people will explain certain undesirable behaviors their partners are displaying. Then they’ll ask whether they should tolerate these behaviors or whether they are making too big an issue of them.
There are, in fact, certain behaviors that should not be tolerated because they damage and will eventually destroy the relationship.
If you are in a brand-new relationship and your partner exhibits one or some of the behaviors below, you may want to consider walking away. If you stay, you may be getting much more trouble, headache and heartache then you bargained for. “……..
There are, in fact, certain behaviors that should not be tolerated because they damage and will eventually destroy the relationship.
If you are in a brand-new relationship and your partner exhibits one or some of the behaviors below, you may want to consider walking away. If you stay, you may be getting much more trouble, headache and heartache then you bargained for. “……..