Valentine’s Day is Peak Season for Extramarital Affairs
February 2nd, 2009 by The Babe“Infidelity doesn’t take a back seat on Valentine’s Day,” says Ruth Houston, infidelity expert, author of “Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs” and founder of InfidelityAdvice.com . “In fact, this is the day when infidelity and extramarital affairs are at their peak. Millions of cheaters give Valentine’s gifts to, or receive Valentine gifts from a secret lover.”
An estimated 50% to 70% of our readers, viewers, or listeners are victims of infidelity.
Tell them about the OTHER SIDE of Valentine’s Day.
Interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston to get the inside scoop on this seldom discussed aspect of the most romantic day of the year. Find out:
• What 2 facts about Valentine’s Day make it the ideal time to catch a cheating mate
• How these 2 facts can be used to expose a cheating mate
• Tips a wife can use on Valentine’s Day to expose her husband’s extramarital affair
• Signs that tell a man his wife or girlfriend is cheating on him
• Signs to look for on Valentine’s Day if you suspect a workplace affair
• How Valentine’s Day phone calls can give the cheater away
• Why Valentine’s Day is the best day of the year to hire a private investigator to follow your cheating mate
• The #1 excuse men use to get away to spend time with their lover on Valentine’s Day
• The #1 excuse women use to get away to spend time with their lover Valentine’s Day
• The extremes cheaters will go to to see their lovers on Valentine’s Day
• How to find the incriminating paper trail for the purchase of Valentine’s Day gifts
• Telltale signs that appear shortly AFTER Valentine’s Day
To interview Ruth Houston call 718 592-6039 or e-mail e-mail protected from spam bots (InfidelityExpert at gmail.com)
About Ruth Houston:
Infidelity expert Ruth Houston is the author of Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs, which documents practically every known sign of infidelity. Ruth has been quoted in the New York Times, the New York Post, the Toronto Sun, Cosmopolitan, the Houston Chronicle, Newsday, MSN Lifestyle, iVillage, Netscape and numerous others. Ruth has been a guest on The Today Show, Good Day New York, Telemundo, BBC, CBC, 1010WINS, TalkAmerica and over 200 radio and TV talk shows in the United States, Canada, Europe, South America, New Zealand, and the Caribbean. For more information on Ruth Houston, her book or about infidelity, visit the PRESS ROOM at www.InfidelityAdvice.com.
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The Grief Of An Illicit Love’s Death
January 11th, 2009 by The BabeA 35-year-old married mother of one tells of the guilt and despair that she feels after the death of her married lover
The first time that I met Gregory, I felt I’d known him for ever. He gave me my first job with total faith in my ability. I was comfortable in his company; we had shared interests and outlooks. He was a decade older, married with children and I was with my boyfriend Simon. If we’d been free, we would have gone for it.
I moved jobs and although Gregory’s friendship endured over the next ten years, contact waned when I married Simon and had a baby. Simon was stable, a great friend who helped me through years of family losses, but he wasn’t my soulmate. In 2005, Gregory e-mailed to invite me on a new project. Nothing had changed; we slipped back into banter, sharing problems and supporting each other.
Over the next six months our messages became intense and flirtatious. I tried not to fall for him, but receiving 20 e-mails a day became my emotional escape. He was supremely attractive, but I realized I really loved him. We met and consummated the affair. We weren’t planning to leave our families, but wanted each other. It was wrong, but felt right and we agreed to meet once a month.
Then, a couple of weeks later, he stopped writing and didn’t answer my messages. After three days I e-mailed a colleague on our project and was told that Gregory had died of a heart attack. The pain was searing. I’ve never experienced such despair. Although I told Simon of his death, I had to contain my grief. I didn’t want to admit the affair. At the funeral, it was good to be among others who cherished Gregory. Because no one knew of our affair, I had no platform for my grief. On the first anniversary of his death I started a course of therapy. I told Simon I had work issues, that I felt depressed, which he accepted. The counseling allows me to grieve openly. Without it, I might lose my sanity.
I still avoid meeting new people because my grief is so consuming. I hate being duplicitous with my family, but I am trying to protect them. The few people I’ve confided in give me an outlet, but I risk being judged for my infidelity.
After the funeral, Gregory’s wife asked a mutual friend to sever all contact with me; I believe she discovered our affair. My guilt is focused on her, rather than Simon, because I feel widowed too. I worry that in the long term, living a lie will affect my physical as well as mental health. Losing Gregory, and grieving inwardly, has posed a bigger threat than my affair would have done. I may tell Simon the truth, so he understands why I need to leave him: I can’t spend the rest of my life with this man, who isn’t Gregory.
In The News - Cheating Wives Club
January 3rd, 2009 by The BabeThe Seattle Times Inbox Column
Online “Cheating Wives Club
By Charles Bermant, The Seattle Times Knight Ridder/Tribune Business News
Nov. 30 - A few months ago while wading through a ton of unsolicited messages, one caught my eye: It turned out that several women in my neighborhood were lonely and neglected by their husbands, and had joined an online “cheating wives club.”
In an effort to end their unfulfilment, they were using the power of the Internet to find love. This made me exceedingly curious about whom it might be, as all my neighbors seemed to have happy marriages.
Could it be that Mrs. Nelson isn’t exactly a happy homemaker, or Mrs. Bunker is on the prowl? Maybe that cute blonde Mrs. Keaton is a tigress at heart.
I didn’t click that particular link for a number of reasons. In the first place, there is my own marriage to consider. My wife seems to have lost the spirit of adventure and drew the line when I wanted to get a fifth dog.
And I’m not sure she always told the truth when we were dating. When she said she liked “classical music,” I thought she meant early Beatles. Still, things don’t always work out as promised, so you need to adapt. Besides, cheating on your spouse is one of those bad decisions you can’t un-make.
Then, we have the dumb criminal factor. That is, if you were going to cheat on your spouse, why would you use the Internet to make it happen? This advice follows the same slimy morality advice that it’s OK to lie, but don’t put it in an e-mail.
There are two reasons to not behave badly: because it is wrong and because you can get caught. People who use the Internet to line up assignations obviously don’t care about either.
Which leads to the main flaw of this “service.” If a woman is so inclined to cheat on her husband, presumably behind his back, why would she go online in order to advertise this? I realize that every relationship looks different from the outside, but I don’t know many guys who could survive the embarrassment and insult of a wife who advertised online to find a cheat partner.
So, like any husband who doesn’t want to devastate his wife, shatter his family or turn his own life upside down, I ignored the message. Or did I? A few weeks later I received a notice that read simply, “Dear Online Cheating Wife User. (3) ladies have responded to you for your date. You can begin your date with any of these (3) individuals by clicking below. Have Fun!”
This is where it crossed the line from irritation to malice. Any technically unsophisticated wife who read this message in her husband’s e-mail might trust him a little less, even though he had done nothing wrong.Since that kind of trust isn’t an issue in our home, I clicked on the link; out of curiosity. Here’s the place where I would find my own wife and we’d have a hot date, if life were like “The Pina Colada Song.”
Instead there is an unhappier ending. These links lead to unrepentant porn sites, pictures of women who disrobe for a dollar. Another e-mail trap, from people who are out to take your money and appeal to the worst in you. There ought to be a law.
Survey Unveils What Happens in Bedroom
December 20th, 2008 by The BabeAssociated Press
STOCKHOLM, Sweden - Austrians love their bedrooms, but seldom make love in them. Malaysians often have sex in their bedrooms, but don’t get much sleep there.
Those are some of the conclusions of an international Gallup poll presented by Swedish furniture giant Ikea. The company wanted to know how frequently people in Europe, Asia and North America use their bedrooms for different activities, including sleeping, relaxing and “romance.”
- In Sweden and Iceland, 72 percent of respondents said they use their bedrooms for romantic endeavors, while in China the same figure was 20 percent.
- Malaysians were the most sexually active — 43 percent said they have sex daily in their bedrooms. Malaysia was also the place were people sleep the least: Six hours and 36 minutes per night, about half an hour less than the survey’s average.
- Austrians ranked low in sexual activity, but were the most satisfied with their bedrooms, ahead of Belgians and Swiss. Russians were the least satisfied.
- Spaniards and Americans were most likely to keep their bedrooms private.
- Almost half of Chinese allowed their friends access to their bedrooms.
- Other facts in the survey: Three-quarters make their bed daily; people who frequently change their mattresses have more sex; and the most common fixture of a bedroom is the alarm clock.
The survey included 14,000 IKEA customers in 27 countries. The margin of error was 4.5 percentage points.
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