Women don’t forget the good times of any relationship and they store the memories in their hearts. It is these memories that at times cause them to turn a blind eye when a relationship turns sour. They hold on to these memories hoping things will get better or go back to the way things used to be. They have such strong faith and hope even in awful situations.

Women are groomed from childhood to become mothers, wives and to be responsible even for other peoples lives. Unfortunately, there is little or no training in self-esteem, being single and content, and just being a total person.

The foundation of anything is important because that is what will sustain the ‘building’ or better still the individual. A weak foundation always causes problems later on in life. To fix a weak foundation you have to break down the building and start to rebuild. Reinforcement may be insufficient because it may only solve the problem temporarily. It is vital that one looks at how they are groomed into life. If you are groomed to know that for your life to be complete you need to find a man, just know you have it all wrong. When you don’t find one you will begin to panic and go out there and get the wrong one.

What are some of the reasons that cause women to stay in bad relationships?

He will change.
He pays my bills.
Am used to him and I know him better than the devil.
He has infected me with an incurable disease so who will want me now.
I have a child or children with him; let me stay for their sake.
I can’t feed the kids, care for them nor educate them.
I feel obligated because he has done so much for me e.g. he bought me a car, etc
Scared of starting another relationship because the next guy might be worse than him.
I still love him even if he hits me when he loses his temper or comes home drunk.
He says he still loves me and cares for me.
I have already spent then prime of my life with him and am older now, so let me just stay with him.
If I leave, my family and friends will talk and say I have failed to keep my marriage.
I don’t have a job as I left high school to stay with him; where will I go?

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