There are 26 million potential Clara Harrises out there - wives with cheating husbands who have no idea their husbands are having an affair. Oprah’s interview with Clara highlights how any wife who finds herself in similar circumstances, could overreact or lose control the way Clara Harris did.

(PRWEB) May 2, 2005 -- Any woman who has ever been cheated on could identify with Clara Harris, as they watched Oprah’s recent interview with her. Clara told Oprah her side of the story in an exclusive interview at the Mountain View Unit in Gatesville, Texas where she is currently serving time. The shock of seeing her husband leaving a hotel with his mistress after he led her to believe he was ending his affair, pushed Clara Harris over the edge. Following a physical altercation with David’s mistress, Clara ran over her husband, killing him in the hotel parking lot.

26 Million Potential Clara Harrises
“There are an estimated 26 million potential Clara Harrises out there - wives with cheating husbands who have no idea their husbands are having an affair. “says Ruth Houston, infidelity expert and author of Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs. “Any woman who without warning, finds herself thrust into a similar situation, could lose control the way Clara Harris did.”

“Where matters of the heart are concerned, it’s so easy to lose control.” says Houston, whose website http://www.InfidelityAdvice.com offers practical advice for women with cheating husbands. “Infidelity is a highly emotionally charged situation in which people commonly overreact.”

Could You Be the Next Clara Harris? According to Houston, you could be the next Clara Harris if:
• you’re in a happy marriage and it never occurred to you that your husband could have an affair.
• you know your husband would never cheat on you because you’re beautiful, sexy, a good wife, devoted mother, passionate lover - or fill in whatever reason you think would keep your husband from having an affair.
• you don’t know how to recognize the early warning signs of an affair.
• you’re certain you would recognize the obvious signs of infidelity, but don’t know how to spot the many subtle signs.
• you’ve never seriously considered how you’d handle the situation if your husband actually had an affair.
• you’d have no idea what to do if you found out another woman posed a serious threat to your marriage.
• you don’t know what NOT to do or what mistakes to avoid if you discovered your husband was having an affair.
• you don’t know the proper steps to take if you suspect your husband could be having an affair.
• you’re not sure how you’d react if you discovered your husband was having an affair.
• you don’t have an relationship reference book in your home that can help you identify the signs of infidelity.

The Clara Harris Quiz
“Studies tell us that infidelity affects 80% of all marriages today.” says Houston. “Although extramarital affairs typically develop in stages, they usually take most women by surprise.” Houston, an infidelity expert, who was once a victim of infidelity herself, has compiled 18 probing questions for wives to ask themselves about infidelity and extramarital affairs. Houston calls this questionnaire “The Clara Harris Quiz.”

“These questions force a woman to take a long hard look at herself and her marriage. The answers may reveal more than a woman really wants to know, but they can help a woman see where her weak spots are and how vulnerable she is,” says Houston. “If Clara Harris had taken this quiz before learning of her husband’s affair, she would have answered no to almost every question.” NOTE: the quiz is available by e-mail to any woman who requests it. See below.

Consider the Implication of Each Question

Houston encourages women to answer each question in the quiz with an honest Yes or No, and to consider what each question implies. She warns “If a you’re uncomfortable with the questions, or find the answers disturbing, that’s a definite danger sign. Your potential for becoming the next Clara Harris increases with every No answer you give. Each No puts you deeper in the danger zone.”

Based on the current statistics, the majority of women are likely to become victims of infidelity at some point in their lives. “The purpose of the Clara Harris Quiz”, says Houston, “ is to highlight a woman’s vulnerable areas so she can work on turning those No’s into Yes. By considering the possibilities, if infidelity should ever strike, you can avoid becoming the next Clara Harris.”

Get a free copy of the Clara Harris Quiz
Women can request a free copy of The Clara Harris Quiz” by sending an e-mail to e-mail protected from spam bots (InfidelityInfo at gmail.com) with “Clara Harris Quiz” in the subject line.

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